Category: Zen & Dharma

Life of Carmen, Uncategorized, Zen & Dharma

Compassion Part 1: mean people are unhappy people

I once took a ride to Burning Man with a guy named Jake. Jake had rented a gigantic RV and was looking for people to offset the cost of the trip. I joined on, with three other women along for the ride. We rumbled off toward Black Rock City in good spirits, but Jake soon …

Aging & Dying, Dorje LIng, Karmic Economics, Life of Carmen, Uncategorized, Zen & Dharma

Unconditional happiness

This is the goal now: unconditional happiness. Without money or goods, or property or progeny; without lovers or partners or family or friends. Without accomplishments or monuments or trophies or tributes. Without health or mobility or comfort or rest. Any or all may arrive and be welcomed. But I will be happy. I deserve nothing …

Dorje LIng, Life of Carmen, Uncategorized, Zen & Dharma

Talking down a dragonfly

I am noticing how finely attuned my senses are right now, to the sounds, the smells, the buzzing life of the earth all around me. I went into the Meditation Hall, knelt by the altar and said my prayer: Until I awaken, I take refuge in the buddha (the light within), the dharma (my teachers …